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Little pieces of hope become my home.
Inside; I treasure every bit, for in the times that have me so scattered…
I know that there is a piece of peace waiting for me.
I burned myself tonight, Iย gave into the flames and burned everything I thought I knew about myself.
The next morning I awakened from the ashes and chose to build a new me from the burnt ash.
From pieces to ashes, a rebirth of myself to create a new sense of calm and Inner peace.
I once again could hear the birds sing with the trees.
I finally could dance along to those very tunes.
…
Between the sky and the earth lies love and hate.
It’s now become hard to differentiate.
Everyone in between are just actors waiting for their cue.
Above and below life and death, was sky and earth.
The sky and earth wished to kiss but loved the insanity in between them.
It was too hard to cave in.
An ongoing saga, as their world continues to spin; to crash-land on them or to let them crash-land on each other.
Sick flies and a thousand lies, lay on the ground..lit up by moonlight.
Love and betrayal,
made a broken heart fragile.
Wild and whimsical,
our love lasted.
Sad and parted,
our paths ended.
The flies feed on your filthy lies and my revenge lit up by the waxy moonlight.
The wild cats and the wolves don’t fight tonight.
They lay way for a poor woman’s revenge and hide.
Have your ever felt judged? We have! Veruna and myself have gone through numerous situations where we could feel others’ negative energy on us. So how do you deal with it?
Letting go of these people from your life will literally change the way you see yourself and the direction you’re going in. Let’s face it, we live in our minds and that’s where the overthinking lives too. Over time our brain starts to convince us that the way others see us is more real, and more valid. So we try to become better in their eyes and you know what?! We never do! There will always be something that they feel we need to change – frustrating right?
People do this because it’s a reflection of the insecurities they have. It’s a sad fact, and one that doesn’t need to affect your life anymore. Don’t be angry at them, just walk away. Turn that frustration into love for yourself – there’s nothing more powerful.
โข Delete toxic people off social media
โข Block their access to your accounts
โข Don’t hang out with them
โข Don’t hang out with people who talk about them
โข If you live with them, try to interact less. Put on your favourite song when they’re talking and get into your zone.
โข Try self care techniques
โข Walks in nature and spending time with animals
โข Be the version of you that you love
So many of us live our lives pleasing others and taking on their negative energy. We’re not helping them or ourselves. It’s time to step away and live your best life. Much love.
Let us know in the comments what steps you use to get rid of toxic people.
How in love i was with the idea of having a man to make me happy.
To have someone to go to beautiful places with, to complete me
…
I’ve realised the errors that make up those lines..those errors had many questions come to mind.
…
Is love an idea?
Is a man happiness?
Are beautiful places only meant for two?
Does someone else complete the other half of ME?
…
Think about it for a second.
I’m not saying falling in love is wrong.
I’m saying; falling in love with someone else before yourself means that, someone else has first place in your life and you’ve placed yourself..second.
I’ve spent too much time overthinking.
The breaths between each competing thought keep breaking.
I drew too many conclusions,
Scrabbled up too many solutions.
How far did that take me?
I haven’t made up my mind on that one
I’m still thinking…
Overthinking:
To think too much about (something)ย :ย to put too much time into thinking about or analyzing (something) in a way that is more harmful than helpful
https://www.merriam-webster.com/
As children we laugh
The world seems limitless
At school we cower
Scared of being picked on
And then we work
Whether we love it or not
We work
We’re born chasing dreams
Now we chase our dreams away
They said we couldn’t do it
We laugh
We chose not to do it
They laugh
We’re all laughing and living for each other
Another wasted life
You stretch me, you push me
But it’s all worth it
My dreams, my hopes
Terrified I cling to you
Is this how it feels
Chasing dreams
Shouldn’t we be gliding instead?
We’ve been running
Letting them win
It’s time to light the torch
Go all in
The pain you feel
That’s you burning
But honey you aren’t dying
You’re shining
Step forward now
Into your truth
Free your throat
You’ve been on mute
Do the right thing
Even if it costs you everything
Dreams are inverse realities…truth parties.
They make โrealityโ feel like an illusion.
Brighter than plain grey…
Moulding a perfect reality in clay.
Dear dream catcher, please donโt snatch my โrealityโ away.
Donโt take away this freedom.
Donโt take the light away from the dim.
Iโd be left in complete darkness; in a night without happiness.
Let my dreams stay.
Donโt stop me from writing this play.
Cover me up with your wings.
Cover up my bare innocence.
All that I see in this world, makes no sense.
I let my guard down, all so that you could reach out to me.
Like honey, my tears run down my face; ever so slow, almost resisting to fall to the ground.
Honey on feathers, your feathers…you never allowed my sadness to hit so low.
Cover up my vulnerability with your shade, like an angel handing over itโs veil.
Complicated feelings infused with simple meanings.
All is felt, just with you.
I know some of you might disagree. We seem to live in this mindset where we feel like other people have perfect lives but that couldnโt be further from the truth.
People may not have the same issues as us but everyone is going through something.
Most of our fears and anxiety come from the first 10 years of our life. The cards weโre dealt as a kid, sort of determines who we become and how we treat others.
But no matter how bad it was, we can choose to let go of parts of us that donโt bring us happiness.
I didnโt even realise what self sabotage was. It was just a normal thing I used to do that weirdly brought some kind of satisfaction.ย I think it was a way of protecting myself, I mean no one could hurt me if I was already punishing myself.
So I used to create these scenarios in my head of people I love leaving me or betraying me in the future. And it wasnโt like they had done anything to warrant that behaviour either; I just told myself it was going to happen.
These thoughts were very detailed and every time Iโd find myself balling my eyes out.
Anyways through luck or perhaps divine intervention I was introduced to lots of self love and inner child workshops.
This helped me see things in a different light and it made me ask the question, โDo I love myself? And what do I really want in life?โ
I wanted to be happy. I mean I was crying over situations that didnโt happen and it was because I felt others wouldnโt love me but I was the one pushing them away because I didnโt love myself.
So I worked on my inner child and it was tough. Self sabotaging was so much easier than confronting my childhood demons.
But I didnโt want to give up!
Have you ever felt like your life has no purpose? I felt that a lot and I wanted to change it. Also, I wanted to feel enough in every moment.
I realised that I was so concerned with others and what they thought or whether they were in my life that I didnโt even see that crying yourself to sleep is so unhealthy.
And how could I love people if I didnโt love me. I mean wouldnโt I have been expecting more out of them then and thatโs not fair, especially considering theyโre probably broken on the inside too.
Iโm going to be real with you. These arenโt self care tips but things you can actually do to fall in love with yourself. And it might not be easy.
Iโve been working on myself for a while now and I thought I had ended my โself sabotagingโ habits.
Then it came up again and I realised it was because loving yourself is continuous and if you get too caught up in work, or people then itโs easy for old versions of you to surface.
So I decided to write this article for you because I wanted you to know that youโre not alone. Maybe something in here would help you, even if itโs just having someone that gets it.
Feel free to leave comments if you have other tips youโd like to share.
As always, much love, Shanal.
Broken feathers easing down my spine. I’m struggling, this mountain is too steep to climb. How did I end up paying for your crimes. I close my eyes and remember the sounds of the Chimes. The bells from the temples; the series of events that took place eleven hours before this dread. I’m half dead and you look nothing like you said. I’m scared, alone and cold. My Hope’s are starting to fold. I remember what the demons had told me, we eat you up because you allow us to. You looked nothing less than one of those demons. So I sparked up my last joule of energy. This was the chance, to make my grim escape. By the end of that night, I walked over you. You seemed a bit colder than usual….
For so long I thought that I had to live the life I was given. I knew that I wanted certain things but I couldnโt see how Iโd ever be able to achieve that.
Most of us grow up in a town, a city, a society where we constantly feel like weโre not enough. I always thought when I get to the next level โ when I get that job, car, house or relationship then, Iโd finally love myself. But as I achieved certain things, the feeling of not being enough seemed to get bigger.
So I started working on myself. I took all of that energy and invested it in me. And it was the most difficult thing I ever did. Itโs like trying to walk in a pool.
Some of you may have heard of this concept. This is literally when you try to face your demons. Itโs a different process for different people.
For me, it meant dealing with layers of childhood issues. It meant going back to the very first moment I felt like I wasnโt enough. When you remember that moment, feel that feeling then you start your process of healing.
You have to release that energy, pull it out of you. Forgive yourself and others, and know that you will do better now.
When weโre at our low points we feel so alone. But thatโs never the case. Thereโs always a higher force living inside you.
It took a lot of releasing before I began to see my potential. And when I did I knew I wouldnโt be going back.
Iโve lost a lot of people along the way, because they only saw what I was and not what I could be.
Coincidences rarely happen. If youโre still reading then this post was always meant to find you.
The answer youโve been waiting for is, you can have it all and still be happy! The only thing stopping us from living an extraordinary life is the mindset we choose to stay in.
I know Iโve been there. I used to complain to my sister all the time, โI canโt do this! I canโt work with others! I want freedom but I also need money. How will I live in society? How can I actually help others or have a big purpose if Iโm living in this lack?
So she told me to ask the universe my question and actually listen for the answer. And when I received it, it seemed so obvious. So I put in the work. I went after my dream. And all those things I thought were impossible, I now have it.
I really want you to know that everything you want is possible! But you have to really want it. You have to want it for you.
Think about achieving something major but you canโt share that news with anyone. Would it still mean something to you? If the answer is โNoโ then you donโt want it for the right reasons.
Itโs time for your journey now, and yes you may lose some people. But the ones who you need will come and find you.
Feel free to comment if this post came at the right time for you and how youโre now going to start living the life you want.
Much purple light and love
Shanal๐
It was going onto the third day of gloomy skies and wet soil; the day started off like any usual day would, hitting the snooze button for at least five times and eating a single cracker for breakfast. The next two hours escalates into a rushed maze run towards another boring day arched over a computer screen. I try to make the hours that tick by feel fun by creating tunes as I hit my keyboard. Karen, just a cubical away crunches on her carrots and hummus whilst scanning for potential threats that may damage her privileged life. Zoni, tries to pretend that sheโs not on the phone with her abusive husband and Dwayneโฆ. Dwayne isnโt here, heโs recovering from a โfluโ.
The same old drama, the same patterns distributed across this office every day. Itโs close to snack time at work, my bell peppers and cream cheese with โeverything but the bagel seasoningโ still tastes as horrible as the first day I jumped onto the trend. I crunch on those whilst scrolling through Instagram, drooling over perfect bodies and aesthetic vibes. As the evening ticks in, we all go back to our lives; of which were either sad, liberating or depressing. No words are exchanged, we exit those doors as strangers to each other, just like the way we enter.
I head home and try to do a fifteen-minute online workout that can help you lose fat in ten days and then eat half a pizza after. My boyfriend who works extra hours almost every day, comes home smelling like a pumpkin spice latte, funnyโฆ. he never loved pumpkin. We kiss, almost barely touching lips and then spend the rest of the night on our phones watching boyfriend tag videos on YouTube, he dozes off to sleep faster than he usually does. Why? this added a further thirty minutes to my sleep depriving over thinking habit.
The alarm rings and as Iโm about to hit snooze for the fifth time, a bird hits my room window. I woke up in a shock, something had disturbed my usual pattern. This wasnโt something so extra ordinary but it wasnโt ordinary either. As I open the window to help the bird, Iโm simultaneously opening the window to some fresh air; this feels so liberating, can breathing in fresh air really feel that good. I had time to eat more than one cracker, I even had time to dress my bed. For once, I could actually listen to the radio whilst driving to work. I rekindled my love for Coldplay and BTS has stolen my heart.
The same routine plays off at work, only this time, I have more energy; more energy to fight with Karen, Counsel Zoni and expose Dwayne; if only ridding racism, healing trauma and uncovering addictions were that simple. All I did was say something Iโve never said before, โGood morning, hope today goes well.โ despite the awkward silence, I could already see the patterns changing in the room. The day carried on as usual but with different tones, I spent more time working instead of loathing and the only overthinking I did
was ask myself; โwhen did a bell pepper replace a bagel!?โ
We walked out the door as work colleagues instead of strangers that day. Dwayne felt like hitting the cafรฉ around the corner instead of the local bar, he asked if we wanted to join him. Karen was still racist and decided to pass but she did so politely, Zoni said she needed to visit a friend for some help with something, this time she wasnโt lying. I usually would slither my way out of social confrontations but on that day, I had more fresh air in my body than I had ever had.
The smell was oddly familiar, hints of cinnamon crowded the aromas, Dwayne exclaimed that the best pumpkin spice lattes are sold here.I personally felt the cinnamon came through a bit heavy but not as heavy as my chest fifteen seconds after my first sip. To my disbelief, my boyfriend was behind the counter serving coffee to sleep deprived college kids, they werenโt the only ones tired, the bags under his eyes, Cleary show from the long shifts at work. I couldnโt do it; I could not confront him in that moment.
I got home and took a shower, tears just rolled down my face. He got home smelling like cinnamon for the fifteenth night in a row. I discover one truth tonight, that he needed extra money to pay off loans; one simple truth that did not have to be hidden, one simple truth that would have given me no reason to stay up pondering at night. How many other truths will I discover in the future? I canโt tell. will he be in my future? I canโt tell that either because from the moment I took that breath of fresh air in the morning; I realized, patterns change; even if just by a slight difference, they change. My life is a pattern and it will change, I just have to embrace the ever-changing patterns because being stuck in the same one, is definitely not an aesthetic vibe ๐
A sense of needed belonging.
A sense of needing something.
I miss you.
Flying away across the horizon.
Yet still standing frozen.
I miss you.
I miss the me of yesterday, miss the you that shaped the me of today.
Running towards a dead end, without you;
starts endless cries,
those that never seem to die.
Why lie,
You’ve changed, you’ve gone.
It’s only me for me.
Leading and receding.
I cant seem to step out of your daze.
It’s time now, I’m setting it all ablaze.
Funny how I just know
I’ll still miss you…
We often feel like the victim
in our lives
We take a backseat in our story
Just trying to survive
We surround ourselves with people who
understand our pain
When we should surround ourselves with people who’ve
transformed their pain
We seek happiness outwards
videos, series, phones, books, apps –
They consume us, and Yet
They were created by people who didn’t have
more tools than you do right now
The same hands, legs, even brain – They just used it differently
When we stop following others and walk beside them
We tell our own story
Everything that happened to you, happened for you
To learn, grow and create
Don’t just seek the ordinary things society tells you to –
cause that’s all they’ve done
Create a world you would be happy living in
Create your MASTERPIECE
This poem was written from the point of view of a character from the Harry potter series. Comment if you know what this scene is referring to!
Alone
I stared through the hedge
Watching the weeds grow taller
Then you rode by Laughing with her
The way my heart yearned
To feel the warmth of your gaze
Your lingering attention and adoring praise
You deemed my house unworthy
And my brother mad
But one day you’ll be mine
And we’ll be forever intertwined
Depression isnโt just feeling sad, it is a profound sadness that lasts for a long period of time and affects aspects of our daily lives and relationships. Mental disorders such as depression are seen as a weakness by some, and many people going through depression are told to just get over it or that their problems arenโt that serious. According to the World Health Organization a suicide occurs every 40 seconds and an attempt at suicide is made every 3 seconds. Finding a way to deal with and overcome depression can be really difficult because the cause of depression is different for lots of people as are the types of depression they experience.
The first signs of depression are very subtle. It begins with your mind not to reacting to things in the way you usually do. You donโt relate to the things your friends are talking about, and everything youโre doing feels like a chore. Itโs a gradual change and often those closest to us might not even pick it up because we pretend that weโre still thinking and feeling the same way we always have. We try to deal with it on our own but these irrational thoughts get to us at all parts of the day and night until weโre not just thinking a thought but feeling the emotion that comes with that thought – and itโs not a good emotion to be feeling all the time.
I am someone that has experienced depression and pinpointing one specific thing that triggered it is close to impossible. At first I was just sad about my past, my present and where I felt my future was headed โ or wasnโt headed rather. Then I just felt myself gliding mechanically through each day, no new ideas or creations, just me trying to survive. Technology and brain scans now show us that when a person is depressed, the frontal lobe of the brain, which is responsible for managing high level executive functions, decreases in size. I then moved to the next stage which is different for many people but for me included feeling like human existence is a lie and that nothing in the world really matters. I was extremely lucky to have had the right kind of support and guidance during my depression, although I wasnโt so receptive to it at first. This is why I believe that getting through depression is not only possible, but also achievable without medication.
Step 2: Meditate
As you keep shocking yourself by exploring the unknown outside of you, take some time to explore the unknown inside of you. Meditating is a great practice to find peace within yourself and your life, however it can be difficult at first – I know it was for me. So instead of immediately trying to clear you mind just pay attention to your breathing. Even if you only manage to spend 2 minutes doing this, it still is a big accomplishment.
Step 3: Energy clearing
When we feel a certain emotion for a long period of time, the energy in our bodies becomes stagnant. A simple exercise that you could do to release this energy is lift your hands up to the sky and breathe in and out deeply two times. Then reach down and touch your toes and breathe in and out deeply again two times. You will feel an immediate release.
Step 4: Sharing
This is the most important step, sharing your feelings and thoughts with others. As you may have noticed the previous steps were about changing your focus away from your depression and in doing so you will have received certain revelations. When we stop thinking, we leave room for answers to just flow to us from a place of clarity. At this point it is really helpful to either write down the thoughts or to confide in someone you trust. If you feel like you donโt have someone like that in your life then I recommend contacting any of the following numbers or websites.
0861 322 322 – life line SA
0800 456 789 – South African Depression and Anxiety group. 24/HR
Or you can visit the Cipla website where they have online chats available
https://www.cipla.co.za/mental-health/
It is important to remember that depression is an illness like any other and we need to treat it as such. Seeking out help and taking the necessary care for yourself will not only alleviate your depression but also help you lead a more fulfilling life. I hope that this article provides some guidance for you and you are always welcome to contact us via our support room.
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She ran after the doves,
peace be with her, peace be with her sons;
the one’s she silently protected.
She grew wings out of her blood, every strike on her grew into a new feather.
Her life was like eternal days of bad weather.
The harder he struck the deeper she sank.
Floating on a branch, breaking off the twigs one by one.
Every twig she broke off, grew into a new leaf for her sons.
One day, no twigs were left.
On that day; the doves flew over, back to her.
They gave her sons twigs of peace, only then could she finally find a place…to rest in peace.
I wrote this poem for all of the women who had lost their wings to fly, for all of those women who had to fight for their lives!
To our fallen soldiers, you’re strong…even in spirit.
The darkness conjures emotions of fear
Abandonment in an isolated alleyway
Wearing too much black gets you judged
Emo and Goth they say
Being too dark means your life is doomed
Ugly and threatening they cry
Find your light, be light
But don’t the stars shine only when the sun sets?
What’s in a colour? What’s in a word?
Our perceptions give it meaning
Our emotions give it life
Stop fearing the darkness, fear the human mind
He flung the pages up into the sky,
like ashes in the wind.
The stories he told were all nothing but dreams.
Reality to him was like a closed book
His mind swallowed him in, leaving him as dead as a fish on a hook.
Living behind pages that sometimes looked like cages.
He had nothing to his name, all but wasted fame.
Story after story.
He couldn’t put pen to paper to write his own story.
One day he got sucked up by one of his stories.
The story of the man who left without saying goodbye…
A funny thing it is to be seen,
You go about your whole life wondering what it may feel like…
So much so that when it actually happens, it feels like you’re walking on eggshells.
Ive thought of a few reasons I may have felt this way, and maybe you have too –
Way too much of time is spent elsewhere, other than the present moment, constantly creating and thinking of what if scenarios, either based on the past or future.
What Now? It really flings u back to the now, and you be like what now? And there’s so much S P A C E and time, no wonder we’re constantly filling it with anything random that comes our way (you know what I’m talking about).
We go on thinking life is like a game of Tetris.. or Snake (who’s really good at those games anyway? {if you are, you’re amazing, if not, you’re amazing})
But it’s more like, in millennial terms, a new phone – lots of potential, only if we don’t fill it with crap from our past phones and media from tons of people, other than ourselves.
Gets u thinking yeah ๐๐ญ
Ah, there’s always something about blank canvases: scares some, excites some, numbs some –
Just gotta get outta our heads a little, forget who we are or what we are, and be…
What now?
What now!
What now…
* This piece was essentially inspired by receiving love from my dear friends (by wondering how to respond to it), and by Dr. Shefali (whose ‘What now?’ theory moved from knowing to understanding)
Karina Rampershad
Crystal Child
You came to earth, so innocent and pure
Yet you go through life so broken and raw
You don’t see your power
They’ve dimmed your light
If feels like you’re unprepared for this fight
You came to spread love
But your broken wings can’t fly
Terrible things happen and you have to walk by
You were born to heal so you feel that pull
Despite the negativity
Your purpose will be fulfilled
So remind everyone of their true nature
A new dimension awaits
And together we’ll stand, at the opening gates
Our senses govern our interactions and associations with the world.
Just how far does control over our senses go? Furthermore, how much does what these senses interact with, affect the human alchemy?
“You are what you eat”
You may have heard this quote from many teachers and influencers, it is in fact very true. In Ayurvedic beliefs, the foods we ingest reflects in our behavior, mental wellbeing and physical health.
The taste of food is more than a mere pleasurable experience for the tongue, how we taste food and what we taste affects our thoughts and in turn our reactions.
In Ayurveda, eating good foods that are well balanced and combining foods wisely along with mannerisms such as eating at certain times and so on, form the idea of ‘spritualizing eating’. This all boils down to how you react based upon the way your body reacts to food; a balanced mind, body and soul assists your spiritual experience.
It sounds like a salad piled up with no flavour however this is not the case, Ayurvedic eating also prompts us to enjoy food, the taste of something good makes the mind feel good. Remember, no one’s here to gatekeep eating; how you choose to experience the pleasures of the tongue is always up to you. Eat what feels right. which reminds me of the next sense we are going to touch on…..Touch!
Just by a touch, our brain can interpret so much. Just by a touch, our hearts can feel so much. Touch is one the senses that helps us literally get a hold onto reality.
With touch, we can feel pleasure, pain, fear, happiness, empathy and so much more. It is the sense that physically connects us to our surroundings.
Using our touch to heal? we can use our hands to transfer energy; hence, we should value our sense of touch as one of our key healing mediums. Touch can be a medium we use to share energy between the external and internal parts of ourselves.
You may be familiar with Reiki, some Reiki practices use touch to balance energies, it is a form of healing someone by
transferring universal energy to a person. In order to understand our body or someone else’s state of being, touch is sometimes a very reliable sense.
Touch what feels right. Touch the trees, touch the ground; these moments make up our energy, you are what you touch too.
So, are you starting to see the bigger picture, shall we move onto sight.
We can perceive it all, at just one glance.
A sense we depend on the most when gaining an understanding of our surroundings is sight. This sense connects thoughts and reality.
Like mirrors, our eyes reflect the world. Our actions are these reflections.
We become what we see, we change what we see, we create what we dont see.
When you look into the mirror, see the person you want to become, say: “I love what I am looking at.”, “I am successful”, “I am fearless”.
What you see yourself to be is who you become.
Watch the sun set and feel its warmth, look up to the night sky and feel the magic, see the wrong too…
At certain points in our lives, we have to open our eyes to the scary things too. Good and bad coexist with each other.
Listen carefully, we’re tuning into sound.
Through vibrations we perceive sound, some of you are aware of the notion that “everything vibrates”.
Sound is a sense used to tune into the vibrations of your surroundings.
Sound connects our basic life systems, the connection of different forms with different frequencies make up the skeletal structure of our world. The sound of the wind can tell us about the weather, the sound of a baby crying can tell us if it is hungry.
Should we only listen to birds chirping and Angel’s singing?
Life was never meant to be perfect, part of growing is allowing our senses to dwell into the darkness too. Hearing the cries of the suppressed and the screams of pain builds character, these sounds build up an armour, these sounds can also build a weapon, so be careful with how far deep you allow your sense of hearing to dwell.
Music and sound are therapeutic, mainly because of its fantastic ability to alter the frequency you are vibrating on. Tuning into these frequencies, allows them to shift your mindset, allowing you to be attuned to that frequency; you are what you hear.
Okay, let’s sniff out the last sense, onto smell.
Aromas and scents diffuse into our thoughts, changing the way we feel.
Smell is one of the senses that can change your mood at an instant.
To raise our mood, to raise our vibrations; you may be familiar with lighting incense or scented candles. The aromas of herbs, spices and flowers aid with managing our emotions and mindset.
A smell can take you back to a memory, a smell can create a new memory, a smell can help destroy a memory you do not need anymore.
Take a whiff of nature, sniff some lavender; your aura will change. Something in your emotions shift, you’ve become engulfed in the scents of what you are smelling. In that moment; you are what you smell.
Our senses are a network, they work in harmony so that we can perceive the world, this means that we can attune our senses to broaden our perception of things in the world and beyond. You are what you sense. Which is why I believe we all may be capable of being clairvoyant…
In my personal opinion, what sets apart the ‘normal’ from the ‘gifted’ is that a ‘gifted’ person uses their senses to a much higher capacity than usual. This heightens the brains response, due to the over juiced sensory responses received. Paired with belief and intuition, these could develop clairvoyant abilities; this could be the case for you but there still are external factors to consider as well, some of which go many lifetimes back but that’s a story for another day.
If you’ve lost a sense, are you any less?
Absolutely not! Even with a few missing, the ones you have are much more stronger than it normally would be; you’ve already gained a heightened sense, this enables you to get a grip onto the idea of spritualizing your senses.
Spritualizing your senses breaks the boundaries you have with this world and even the ones you can’t see, it suggests we experience the little and big things your senses interact with as a part of your spiritual journey.
I could go on further and tell you how to enhance your senses but what’s the fun in that?
This journey is all yours, we are all different and want to experience and perceive this world differently. So, I hope that you embrace your senses with a little more importance.
Remember, your senses are more than just receptors; they are creators, healers and transformers too.
Take Care โก
Before we begin our life on earth, we choose all the people who we are going to be in contact with. Everyone we encounter is here to provide us with something. It may seem ludicrous to think that we have actually picked people to hurt us; however on a soul level it all makes sense. To continue towards our soulโs ascension we need to reach a level of detachment while still being able to love unconditionally. Itโs a really difficult process (the kind of difficult that makes you want to hide under your blanket and never come out), but the rewards that come with reaching that level are truly worth it. Achieving a state of mind where you can comprehend why things are happening and not let it destroy you is amazing.
At the present moment on earth, lots of astrological alignments are enabling us to release past karma and, baggage that weโve been carrying for a while now. A new beginning is on the horizon, and as that time approaches its necessary for us to make an easy transition. If we try to hold on to past versions of ourselves and old ideals, life on this planet could become even more treacherous. One method of that release is ending soul contracts that no longer serve us. If you find that a certain person in your life is toxic for you and your growth, then you need to cut them away but make sure you understand exactly why they were in your life in the first place. Itโs this understanding which will enable that you donโt encounter this person or a similar type of situation again. Walking away from what no longer serves you is important, as is forgiveness and love towards a situation. You donโt need to love the person who hurt you but you can and perhaps should give the situation love because that relationship made you a stronger and wiser person. I am starting my own journey towards looking at the relationships in my life with understanding and I hope what Iโve shared with you will help you on yours.
Drowning inside this frozen lake.
Take my fears and stay with me, my tears.
I think I’m floating dead inside.
Take my pain, stay with me my tears.
I think I’m reaching a survivor’s temperature.
Take my tears and leave me in my sweat.
I think the sweat has dried away from my chest.
Take my sweat and stay with me, my breath.
When I was young
I laughed from my belly
Cycled till my legs were sore
And rambled on with my curious questions
When I was young
I met some people
I tried to fit in
I tried to be a different me
When I was old
I realised I’m not like them
So I cried and hurt myself
Till I felt no more
When I was old
I met some people
I did fit in
I started to learn what it’s like to really be me
Now I’m timeless, I still hurt but I also laugh from my belly.
Are you walking a path that you were born to walk in.
Or are you walking with the ones who look ‘cool’.
Have you fogged up your identity, too far from reality.
A triangle trying to be a square.
Why cant you appreciate all three sides of you.
This mind, this body, this soul…its all your OWN.
It doesn’t matter if you have to walk alone; walk with your head up high.
You cover up who you are with a lie and then another.
You dont even recall making that lie, sometimes those lies are made for you.
Open your eyes to your own truth and not someone else’s.
You are different from the other and every other is different from another.
Now take off the cover.
Who are you now?
Challenge the conditioning, the oppressions and free your expression. Silence the gun shots with your confidence. Stand up against supremacy and propaganda. Roar for the suppressed to soar.
Most of us have regrets and scars from things we did or things that happened to us when we were younger. Often we can’t really talk to people about those things because we’ve blocked it out or we become scared, if people knew who we were, they would leave. Healing and letting go of inner child issues becomes more difficult the older we get and it’s really important we deal with them, here’s why:
Well the answer may seem obvious but it is far from easy. Communication is the key when dealing with such stressful memories. Talking to someone we trust and who loves us will make this process much easier. If you’re not comfortable talking to someone just yet, expressing yourself by writing it all out will also be very helpful.
The second step is acceptance, we need to fully accept that these things did happen to us or that we may have done things to others. It may cause a lot of pain and take a bit of time for this to happen but it will be worth it and so freeing for you.
After we’ve accepted our past self it’s vital to understand why things happened the way they did. Look at the people in your life during that time, were you influenced or pressured into feeling you needed to be a certain way? And if you had to go back to that time would you change anything? Ask yourself why or why not? As much as talking to someone we love helps get the process started, the only person who can really give us answers is ourselves.
Remember this step isn’t meant to shift blame or to adopt a victim attitude. It’s simply to understand.
After we’ve understood fully we can finally begin to forgive ourselves and perhaps the people that have hurt us or influenced us to be that way. Remember forgiving someone doesn’t mean you need to let them back into your life neither is it something that they have to know, the forgiveness can be in your heart and mind.
Once you feel that this issue is no longer a problem you can finally let go. You will feel the weight of it being lifted from your mind and definitely enjoy healthier relationships. When you heal your inner child you become your true self, the best version of you and you can go on and discover all the things that makes you happy.
I hope everyone finds true happiness with themselves, remember we are all worth loving.
Thank you for reading this article. I hope it helps you on your journey!
Holding all of my faith in you; a tiny dot up in the sky.
These days are lonesome, nobody can understand me, but you.
A nameless light, that’s been with me throughout my whole life.
Some call it GOD, some call it the sun and others say divine light.
Inside of me, you’ve created a home; at the center of my heart.
And you pull me together on days when I fall apart.
I thank you, for when the days are blue; I got you…
I searched for myself in everyone’s mirror.
My eyes were like mirrors to them.
Reflections of myself changed as I looked into new eyes.
I saw the world.
How do my eyes see me…
I covered mine up and saw it all.
The more I dwelled inward, the more strange became the outward.
Every breath changes the image on the big black mirror beneath my closed eyes.
Piercing through every fear.
Living ‘blindly’ made everything much more clear.
When I was younger, I wanted to be a pilot.
I guess in metaphorical words, I just simply wanted to fly.
Down here was so busy and lonely, Maybe up in the sky, life wouldn’t be so dry.
My family and I; nobody really thought we could fly.
Maybe one day, I thought, I could make us all fly.
The quiet ones, the average simpletons, looked at the world like no one else.
Although many cast shadows upon them; they always cared to share their light.
It’s a journey, not our plight.
Patiently awaiting our flight.
We’re not passengers, we’re captains.
And when we fly, you may never know.
What’s happiness to us may not be the same for the world.
I guess that’s why we never fitted in;
happily so.
I feel my feet slowly leaving the ground…
Silent little talks with myself.
Confiding within, for help.
One too many; my stories fly page after page.
Ink blocks and heart’s locked, so many cry like me.
So many words have been casted on paper, most of them shared with the world.
Why does no one listen…
Feels like I’m sharing my heart with you; my tears and my fears, through my words.
Does anyone feel me….or is it just wasted ink?
Pages and pages, down the bin
How many hearts have you won?
Does the world ever listen.
Has the poet risen.
The ink has dried away.
Why can’t this poet walk away…
The anger slips and falls
Words I can’t take back and actions I can’t undo
Your voice automatically clenches my fists
Your face lights a fire within
And the smoke chokes out my tears
POISON
Did you create it or did I?
It doesn’t matter now, Everything is fading
The blackness engulfs till our next
Itโs simple
You cannot give another
That which you do not have
and so
You must simply
Love yourself
I rose before the sun did
a bruise-like pain
In my back
impressions
rods of glowing embers
between my shoulders down
to the tapering curve of my spine
maybe in a better world
I was flying
Both of these beautiful poems were written by guest blogger and fellow ARMY Aiman Khan. Purple Empaths are proud to present your work and look forward to more pieces. Thank you Aiman!!
Has the Cabin Fever hit you yet?
Purple Empaths are here to help keep your spirits up mentally, physically and spiritually.
These lonesome days may feel boring and unproductive but it is actually a chance for us to work on ourselves.
We’ve come up with a fun daily activity to keep your ‘at home’ journey blissful.
Introducing: The ‘ At Home_TLC’ Card Deck.
#HealYourself with some tender loving care, This activity helps replenish your body, Focus your mind and calm your heart.
Let’s Begin!
First off we get creative!
We are going to be making the TLC cards ourselves.
We’ve put together a list of TLC activities for you:
1. Bubble Bath
2. Bake
3. Meditate
4. Read
5. Watch a Movie
6. Jam Session
7. Get Arty
8. Write a Love Note to Yourself
9. Write a Love Note to the World
Cut out equal sized pieces of cardboard and start illustrating an activity on each card. Once done, at the back of each card, write “today’s TLC”

Take your pick!
Spread out your cards like so:

Let your intuition guide you, the card you pick is your TLC activity for the day.
1. Bubble Bath
We recommend salt baths. Ordinary salt will do, toss some in, and rejuvenate. Salt removes the negative energy and toxins your body retains. You may add natural fragrances or essential oils you find suitable for your body.
Take a deep breath and exhale all of the stress; allow the water to heal you.
2. Bake
During this period, we should be keeping a solid and basic diet; use groceries wisely and eat sparingly. That being said, every now and then, we can treat ourselves to something delicious. Take it one step at a time and enjoy your baking experience.
We will be uploading easy and yummy recipes on our social media platforms, so keep an eye out for those.
Here’s a little sweet something for you to bake.
Rice krispies and date treats:
INGREDIENTS:
125g butter
125g dates
1/4 cup desiccated coconut (optional)
1/2 cup castor sugar
3 cups rice krispies
METHOD:
Melt butter and sugar,add in chopped dates,turn down the heat to medium and stir.Once a mixture add in the coconut and rice krispies. Transfer to a baking casserole and cut into squares.
Let it cool and munch!!!
3. Meditate
We encourage you to incorporate breathing exercises into your meditation. Our respiratory system is the most vulnerable right now and so we need to build strength in our lungs.
The 4 – 7 – 8 technique
โข Breath in through your nose for 4 seconds.
โข Hold your breath for 7 seconds.
โข Now exhale through your mouth for 8 seconds.
Repeat this for about 3 -5 times along to some music or sounds you find relaxing.
here are some YouTube videos that may be helpful:
4. Read
Feed your mind some positivity, adventure, emotion and the unknown; Relax and read a book.
Here are our 10 picks!
โข The moon and sixpence – William Somerset Maugham
โขCosmos: A personal voyage – Carl Sagan โขFrankenstein – Mary Shelley
โขThe handmaid’s Tale – Margaret Atwood
โขPride and Prejudice – Jane Austen
โขTo kill a mocking bird – Harper Lee
โขAtomic habits – James Clear
โขThe Alchemist – Paulo Coelho
โขThe fault in our stars – John Green
โขThe monk who sold his Ferrari – Robin Sharma
5. Watch a movie
Popcorn, Blanket and Action!
Here are our top 10 favorite movies:
โขParasite
โขInception
โขForest Gump
โขThe sixth sense
โขWhen Harry met Sally
โขEdward Scissorhands
โขMarley and me
โขMe before you
โขlast holiday
โขRatatouille
6. Jam session
Dance the boredom away!
Turn on your favorite playlist and get active.
Have your own zumba class, freestyle dance off or an entire Broadway show; All, at home.
Here are our favorite spotify playlists, click the buttons below to view playlists
7. Get Arty
Express yourself through art. Paint, draw, doodle or knit; transform your emotions into art.
We recommend: Art therapy
Take a look at this website for art therapy exercises:
https://intuitivecreativity.typepad.com/expressiveartinspirations/100-art-therapy-exercises.html
8.Write a love note to yourself
Fall In love with yourself. Write love notes to yourself and keep them in a box, on days you feel down or ‘unloved’; open up that box and read those notes to remind yourself to…love yourself.
9. Write a love note to the world
The most Important one; Tender loving care to the world. We heal through each other, when we love others we feel happy, blissful and content.
Check out this great initiative:
http://www.forgood.co.za/campaigns/volunteering-in-the-time-of-coronavirus
This is a simple activity yet so impactful, this will surely keep your spirits up during these hard times. If we could clear up our energy and just be a little bit happier during this period, our empathic relationship with the world will be more positive and healing.
Take care of yourself, take care of others, take care of our planet!
“A song to heal”, “A song that resolves all inner conflict.”, these words often describe a BTS song. For the past seven years, BTS, under their label Bighit Entertainment have crossed boundaries with their astounding music, talent and artistry. Their concepts dwell into topics relevant to today’s society and how its built around its youth.
Even more incredible than themselves are their fans, the BTS ARMY.
Their fans manifest their songs into reality by spreading BTS’s message and purpose, furthermore, they stand as advocates for youth all around the world. Their support for BTS is genuine and heartwarming, this reflects in the many accomplishments BTS has achieved.
Throughout the years, most fans have been inspired to celebrate the members birthdays in a very unique way, this involves participating in some sort of charitable activity; these range from helping humans to helping animals and even the earth. These ‘gifts’ to the members are an all – encompassing act of giving.
Last month, a particular project dedicated to SUGA on his birthday, caught our attention and had us participating in it as well.
The project focused on mental health awareness; #SugasHealingLab is a simple yet impactful approach to spreading awareness on mental health.
The project was created by two fanbases, BangtanmoonlightSA and the Army help centre.
Here’s a little more from these two fanbases:
“BTS are the roots of the ARMY tree that feeds on love, acceptance and respect for self and others. Not only they have supported individuality, but they’ve also successfully created a family-like structure, threading individuals from all walks of life together.
This being said, the rise of mental health issues along with the social stigma that surrounds it brought Army Help Centre into existence. Founded two years ago, AHC aims at providing continuous mental support to the ARMY tree. The AHC team includes – but is not limited to -mental health professionals, such as psychologists and psychology students, who try their best to provide a listening ear to anyone who needs to be heard.
Being active advocates of a stigma-free environment, AHC provides services through its 16 branch accounts in many different languages (such as English, Korean, Russian, Tagalog, Chinese, Japanese to name a few) in order to cater to ARMY on a global scale. The smooth running of the organization is ensured by volunteers around the world working in shifts around the clock.
Within the last two years, AHC has successfully provided a safe haven to thousands of ARMY and few non-ARMY. Dealing with issues ranging from daily conflicts to serious mental health conditions, the AHC team handles the situations at hand without interfering with professional help and rather encourages seeking help from a healthcare professional whenever possible.
On top of the daily reminders, positive self-help quotes and interactions with ARMY, AHC is dedicated to create and implement awareness regarding mental illness and its respective forms of treatment.
Awareness projects are initiated almost monthly with some of its most recent campaigns addressing self-harm, stress management, creativity and so on. AHC has also had the honor to work with Dr. Murray Stein, author of Map of the Soul, and Ms. Laura London, a Jungian analyst, on its two most major projects based on BTS’s latest two albums, “Map Of The Soul: Persona” and “Map Of The Soul: 7” respectively, which shed light on Jungian psychology in a brief but enlightening manner.
Furthermore, AHC has had the pleasure to partner with Crisis Text Line in order to help UK, US, and Canadian ARMY facing hardships to reach out via text to seek solace.
In summary, AHC is working non-stop to make ARMY’s voices heard and their mental health acknowledged and comforted, all while putting an end to any stigma that is still lurking and affecting people’s overall well-being.”
ARMY HELP CENTRE
Twitter: @BTS_AHC Instagram: @bts_ahc
“BangtanmoonlightSA is a BTS charity project Fanbase from South Africa! Our page started back in March 2019 and have done quite a few projects for BTS thus far which includes homemade goodies, donations made to various organizations for some of the members birthdays, a Plant a tree campaign and now our recent collaborative project with the Army Help Centre. From what started off as a normal fanpage to , we quickly realised where our passion lies and so BangtanmoonlightSA, the charity project Fanbase was created. We’ve had a sense of giving and helping instilled in us from a very young age. Run by three sisters, spreading our love for BTS through our projects,We hope to grow and continue to spread our moonlight.”
BANGTANMOONLIGHT SA
Twitter: @Bangtanmoonlig2 Instagram: @bangtanmoonlightsa
#SugasHealingLab inspired fans to spread their words of support on social media using the hashtag, #SugasHealingLab. This was done in the Hope’s of providing support to other fans who may be facing mental health challenges. They also included ‘thought provoking questions’ which prompted fans to voice their opinions on topics that outline mental health issues in today’s society.
Purple Empaths are proud to have participated in such a unique yet necessary project, we also extend our gratitude to the guest writers who participated and expressed themselves in the efforts to highlight mental health struggles and awareness.
Check out the recap of #SugasHealingLab below
Times are tough and whether or not they will get tougher is unpredictable. The philosophy of being in the present sparks through my mind quite often these days, this pandemic has our minds fixated on the past and the future; I wish life were the same as before? or will things get back to normal?…Am I safe?
It is perfectly normal to feel this way, most of us are novices with this type of situation.
Coming back to the present; which most of us feel is stagnant and confusing at the moment. If we could all still our minds for a while and feel what the world is feeling; we’re all scared, some of us are in pain, some are deep in sadness whilst others are lost in the panic. Some of us may have isolated our empathy to care for each other. Right now we need to help each other and those who help us.
We salute our heath care professionals and governments for trying their best to fight this virus; let us all in this present moment, do our bit to help them.
Here are a few donation sites you can make a kind offering to:
Let us also express our empathy through our prayer and through the energy we give out, may we keep the worlds well-being in mind.
We are light
A fragment of something divine
Fear and anxiety may plague us
But our souls still shine bright
Positivity and support we radiate
And love we dedicate
Let’s join together
And be purified alongside our earth
Let’s not imagine, let’s become
Kindness and love
Our divine souls once more In all religions, In all faiths we believe. We worship love.
UNIVERSAL PRAYER BY US, PURPLE EMPATHS
Let’s all be grateful, grateful we have a home; some don’t.
Grateful we are alive; many are losing their lives.
Take good care of yourself and even from a distance, let’s take good care of our fellow human beings.
Light and love to you.
We are light
A fragment of something divine
Fear and anxiety may plague us
But our souls still shine bright
Positivity and support we radiate
And love we dedicate
Let’s join together
And be purified alongside our earth
Let’s not imagine, let’s become
Kindness and love
Our divine souls once more
In all religions, In all faiths we believe. We worship love.
Smoke and ash
That’s what you brought
Fear and panic
That’s what we brought
Are you really that bad?
Because shadows can’t exist without the light
Peace and quiet
That’s what you brought
Positivity and healing
That’s what we can bring
For what is good and bad?
Except another version of our reality
This is a difficult and painful time for the people of the world. The universe brought to earth this virus because it is what was needed for us right now. Over the last few weeks there has been such an expression of love and togetherness from people all over the world. Usually people go about their days thinking about themselves and their families but this virus has connected us. It has heightened our empathy and it has shown us that in the eyes of the universe we are all equal.
We are being asked to take some time away from all that we’ve created and look within ourselves to what has been created for us. Everything we know in this world are things someone else has told us or taught us. Now is the time we begin to question, who am I? And why do I do the things I do? Most people are afraid of being alone with their thoughts because they don’t like the person they are, or are scared of the person they are becoming. We have the ability to change at any moment.
We are used to being called the most intelligent creature on earth, but were we ever? There’s so many things we don’t know because we’ve never asked any questions.
In this time I urge you to focus on you and find unconditional love for yourself and the world. The planet’s healing has begun. Are you going to be a part of it or just continue to spend time on mind numbing things?
Remember that you are loved and worthy.
Does your heart still beat.
Does your soul burn from the heat when you look.
Smoked are your eyes from seeing the truth.
Are you happier today than you were yesterday.
or are the needles of time stuck at an unhappy moment,
such that every breath, feels like an eternal dying moment.
Are you progressing or confessing.
Do you stand in front of your own truth whilst a fake reality stabs you in the back.
Are you ready to get back on that track or are you going to derail the track.ย
Can you lock eyes with your own face and say to yourself;”you’re all i’ve ever wanted.”ย
What sets a wantย from a need
is what sets greed from a plead.
A plead from yourself, begging to be needed.
Does your heart beat to be still or beat to be killed.
Dont let the world kill you, just be a still white dove up above a blaze of chaos.
At the end of the war with ourselves, we dont die to die; we die to rest.
We’re ready to fight for ourselves and our worth.
We’re ready to fight for them and their worth.
At our lifetime’s end, life should feel worth all the pain.
Our legacy should be one the world was proud to gain.
I woke up to a pitter-patter of the heavy rain on my camp tent
A shiver bolted down my spine as I felt the glacial air thwack my skin
Flashes of heliotrope thunder strikes in the other-worldly grey ether
I enclosed myself in a snug fleece
duvet
I closed my eyes to the tranquil sounds of nothingness.
Written by guest blogger Lara. A young empath.
Thank you for this beautiful poem, It is thrilling to see such talent at such a young age.
Submissions are always welcome on Purple Empaths. Email: purpleempaths@gmail.com
Happy writing and happy reading everyone.
In the moonlight
We saw a shadow
As it grew
We felt freer
Your flaws
Helped us accept our own
Your voice
Eases some of our pain
And even when the song stops
Your words
Live forever in our purple minds.
Thank you and Happy Birthday to our Min Yoongi (Suga)! Purple empaths also would like to thank BangtanmoolightSA for their wonderful initiative which we have been so happy to take part in.
Sometimes
Even when things are going okay
My mind collapses
The mixing of dark and light is
Beautifully terrifying
Do I need to fix myself
Or embrace the whirlwind I’m becoming
In the midst of it all I still hear you
You say you love me
And I say
I love me too
To all the people in the world who support someone else by words and actions, thank you!
Why should I smile
When society dictates how I should look
Why should I smile
When society dictates how I should talk
Why should I smile
When society dictates how I should live
Enough!
I smile because I love the way I was created
I smile because I speak the language of love
I smile because I live in love
This beautiful post was written by a guest blogger. ๐๐๐
Why do I always feel so lost?
Because your journey is different lil one.
Why do I always feel I need to explain myself for my actions?
Because you’re trying to fit in lil one.
Why do I always need to prove my worth?
Because you think you’re never enough lil one.
Chin up, head straight
STOP
You’re an original amongst the clones,
Embrace who you are!
To just live like this
Suga (paradise)
To survive like this is a small dream to me
This heartfelt piece was written by guest blogger @kuvinisa Govender. A fellow Empath and a beautiful person. Purple Empaths thank her ๐
The words build and rise like a skyscraper;
The taller it gets the more emptier you feel.
You want to believe that it’s something beautiful;
You want to believe it’s a love that heals.
But instead its built on a weak foundation;
And the words weren’t what you thought it was.
You built this skyscraper of love, hope and dreams;
But little did you know the beauty was you, and that’s why it didn’t last.
Loving myself might be harder
Suga – Answer : love myself
Than loving someone else
Letโs admit it
The standards I made are more strict for myself
I didn’t give you a second thought
Ego
Your perfect face seemed far away
Persona
Then I understood the lyrics
Save me
And you were all I could see
Lights
Thank you for being the greatest teacher
Answer: love myself
Why do my words have no meaning
Why am I so misunderstood
Why am I so lonely
Don’t I deserve to be loved
Don’t I deserve to be thought of
Don’t I deserve a friend
I try but I’m always failing
What does this mean
Please somebody please save me
“you shine in the darkness that is your butterfly effect.”
suga(butterfly)
Exiled to my mind
My fears are gaining strength
It’s so difficult to breathe
Do I even want to anymore?
Your words play on repeat
Taunting me even in my dreams
There’s only one escape for me now
Judge me for this too
Loving yourself is a very important message for people who live in this age of confusion and hardship
Suga – Min Yoongi
Suga’s Healing Lab is a project by @Bangtanmoonlig2 & @BTS_AHC (twt) for BTS member Suga’s Birthday. Purple empaths will be participating with words of healing everyday of March until his birthday (09/03/2020). Thank you Suga for being our inspiration!
Your words broke me
You think you know who I am
Well jokes on you
I don’t even know who I am
Your harsh standards
pushed me into my shadow
And I cried
Then I made friendsโท with it
And now I rise
“Remind yourself that it’s okay not to be perfect.” – Suga
Can you see through my citrus eyes, do you see how often they cry?
Can you see through time because you ring up my chimes at all the right times.
I’m feeling love and pain all at once.
Holding in nothing but my tears.
Your voice’s breeze whispers through my window, dancing along with all of my wind chimes.
Singing your peacful melody; my remedy.
Trying to flow through all of my minds mess…
Ever since a certain day, my mind has constructed a library.
Uncatalogued and unread.
I’ve been trying to connect pages to emotions.
Thought after thought, Spinning into heavy rotations.
Ink to page, page after page; I’m setting my passion ablaze.
I feel a little quartzy, the rose kind.
I’ve been dreaming on a bed of moon stone.
Cataloging my library one book at a time.
The doors are wide open, have a seat in my library.
Let’s write a few rhymes and dance to the chimes.
Isolated in a labyrinth; created by myself.
Here lay the prisms of my dark sides, trapped like the Minotaur.
Back on the ‘real side’ displayed as the good and soft kid; you never heard me roar.
Never saw fire because my eyes always gazed down at the floor.
I’ve hidden here so well in my labyrinth.
No espace from the maze.
I’m holding up the strings weaving them into entanglement.
How long have I been wearing this blur face.
How long will I keep these fake smiles in place.
How will you know me? how will you feel me?
…If my shadows are in prison.
My shadows are not monsters, so why have I called Theseus.
Hold on still; you there, you in the mirror.
I’ll untangle the chains.
Settle the pains.
Shift to new lanes.
Usher in new rains.
Nurture you from what little remains.
I’ll walk with my shadows balancing on the moonlight.
Rise with the owls and sing with the stars.
Long till the nights stay, my shadows and lights play.

Traveling back and forth for what seems to be a wasted cause.
All of the clocks hit pause.
Why only for you?
I cant remember when or if I left part of me there.
From dream land I awake, it feels like my mind has been crumbled by an earthquake.
Could it be this desolation; or a want for some change.
You make my normal feel strange.
Do you need my help or do I need yours.
You take the words right from my mind and turn them into gold.
I could have done the same but your version is more worth being told.
I’ll listen whole heartedly.
Which corners of space did I fold to repeat these visits day by day.
Have we become the same.
I’ve learnt about coincidences but not as many as these, NO.
Can I fly away to a place other than yours.
Darlin’ our places in this world are like water and fire..dont try mixing.
Flying inbetween an empty space but still nothing comes close to the emptiness your eyes show.
Take life a little slow..
Life repeats itself like up and down and then down and up.
You keep scribbling down gold with a frown.
While I keep chasing down a broken crown.
We both keep blazing through mazes to find our place here.
…so, do you need my help or do I need yours?
I’m tired of flying back and forth for a wasted cause.

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With a mind racing faster than the speed of light, you feel overwhelmed
The tears choke you as you try to take a breath and you question
How did I get here?
Your blame reaches far and wide
Your blame reaches near and deep
And when you stop blaming, you start hurting
Till you feel numb
You make a choice
Do I live
Or do I not
Fast forward
You live
The universe brings you your people
Angels smile on you
It’s a tough road but the support overwhelms you
You learn to love yourself
You learn how much you mean
You stretch out your hands to help out the next you..
Rewind
You die
Do you ever think about;
The sun after it sets
The rain before it leaves the clouds
Or the moon on a sunny day
I wonder
Do you think about me often
Sometimes
Rarely or never
You were necessary
And leaving you was too
I’m thankful
Yet
I can’t thank you
You shattered my soul
No I shattered my soul for you
Then picked up the pieces
And gave them to an angel to fix
Walking past you now
I don’t wonder anymore
“Ripped jeans
Broken threads
Will it ever be fixed?
Is it meant to be fixed?”
One day two people came together because they wanted to share themselves with the world. They knew what it meant to be stuck within the black hole of the mind. They hoped to inspire others to walk with them up a road of self growth.
“Emotions flow through veins
Veins lead to the heart
Heart expresses feelings
Feelings destroy and create you.”
Self growth isnโt an easy task, everyone has different lessons in life. We learn from each other but ultimately have to make the decisions that best serve us. Self growth begins with self love and when we began to love ourselves, we found our healing.
When you put something out with good intention and that intention is received by others, it makes your heart fill with gratitude and love. Purple Empaths would like to acknowledge everyone who reads our posts. Thank you for supporting us express ourselves. The love we get from everyone adds fuel to the burning flame within us. You can be assured that next year Purple Empaths will burn even brighter. There will be more personalised interaction, as you will soon be able to connect with us on Whatsapp.
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We would like to take this opportunity to wish you and your loved ones all the best for the festive season and the upcoming year. This is the time of the year when thereโs so much of positivity and hope floating around and we want to help keep that alive for the following 11 months as well. Once again, thank you for helping us shine so that we could become your light.

I give thanks to who I am,
to who I was and to who I am to be.
Good or bad.
Happy or sad.
These emotions made up my branches.
I turned over many leaves, grew different from the other trees.
Iโve become a bold tree, twisted twigs unlike the ordinary.
That of which my roots support proudly.
My emotions sizzle into earthly scented aromatics.
Paying gratuity to lifeโs antics.
A feast for life, a dance to celebrate my perfect defects.
And as time gallops forth, I reflect.
This yearโs tree ring reflects my bold and beautiful memories.
The snowflakes adorn my leaves; life repays in simple ways.
I opened my branches up to the sky to receive its presents.
Small or large, I am eternally grateful.
Iโve changed through the seasons; I give thanks to change.
Iโve embraced you even through winter.
As icy as life had gotten, change gave me a chance to be grateful for every problem.
I gave back to myย fellow trees; different or not, it never mattered to me.
Sunshine and moonlight peeked through my leaves every day, even when wilted they illuminated me.
Lastly my thriving roots, my soul, the ocean that houses my every heartbeat.
Youโve given me time to seek.
From seed to root, from root to twig.
No thanks can ever be that big.
My greatest thanks is to life, my all giving euphoric journey.
May this year end with gratitude and may the next start with hope.
Hope will spring tomorrow from the gratitude you plant today.
Sunflowers bloom through a whimsical wrinkle.
Growing inbetween my fickle face.
Trying to cruise at a simple pase.
Passing by the rat race.
Going smoothly; the clouds pass by hesitantly.
Still is my mind; the rays of the sun and the moon keep blessing me.
As my worlds stand in stillness.
The world is running frivolous.
Tracking my foot steps with a magnifying glass, my problems follow step by step.
I turn around offering them a pleasant ride.
I wear them on me with pride.
They’re the founders of my kingdom.
One day I seek to live my dreams.
For now I’ll walk on my slow sunflower road.
Look how conscious my mind has grown.
Look how much love my heart has shown.
Look how much energy my soul has thrown
Look how many sunflowers my road has sown.
Look…
As we grow, most of us feel this mounting pressure about how we are going to survive in this world – and not just survive but thrive in it.
It’s a scary thought to some that they have to pick something, just one thing, to do for the rest of their lives and in a world full of options it seems as if there is only two, i.e. success or failure. To find this ‘one thing’ people shadow others, do what their friends do, do what their parents have done, take online quizzes, travel the world or just flip a coin.
So now I would like to throw my opinion into the bowl. What if we all were already born with a purpose? What if the key to finding what we need to do, isn’t learning what’s right for us but unlearning all the things that are useless to us? We always tell ourselves that we aren’t smart enough to invent or create, aren’t vocal enough to be in a position of power, but why do we tell ourselves that? We go to school, write a test under such controlled environments where the fun is taken out of learning and then the results tell us if we are going to be successful or fail! How crazy is that? We put our lives or the mindsets of our lives into the hands of someone whose only ‘skill’ is that they passed the tests that someone else set and pleased that person.
I truly believe we need to find an understanding of ourselves. We need to use the means we feel comfortable with, to go deeper within our minds. To not be afraid of our thoughts. We need to remember again why we chose to be here, and why we chose to go through it with these people. When you feel happy, fulfilled and grateful each morning, you know that you are doing the thing you should be doing for the rest of your life, and that thing is being yourself!
Fractal by fractal, my guard crumbles down.
My last defences may cause you to drown to a past tense.
My numbing cold burns fail to burn your ego.
Just as your efforts fail to work.
All that’s left to do is walk.
Walk into an unseen future.
Chip after chip. Break after break, my crown collapses.
Swish swosh. Drop after drop, my tears flood the oceans.
My fall signals the fall of all things moral.
Your toxicity run through my veins and coral.
Your actions melt my crown and burn my diaphragm.
Simultaneously you lost your breath as you ran.
Dethroned by her own people.
Was this the prophecy of a ruined kingdom?
Laid to wander like your nightmare’s phantom.
Could we turn back the sun dial to a time less vile?
Maybe forward to the future, perhaps hope sprung eternal.
If dreams could manifest into reality.
Dream catcher let your guard down.
Some dream for a better me
Let them dream, let them manifest.
Let them make this place better.
Till then the clock strikes close to terror.

Written with intent to raise awareness on our current climate crisis. Earth depicted as our queen, the melting ice glaciers represented by a melting crown. I hope this poem speaks to your heart as the facts speak to your mind. Let’s make this right or at least try to. Love and peace.
Curled up all alone.
Whispers bouncing back to myself.
Billions of dreams stacked up on my tall shelf.
My broken ladder representing my fractured identity.
Breath after breath, tear after tear
Fallen to the barren ground engulfed in my fear.
My validation; only counted by stacks of paper like I’m something being sold.
Fitting in? not for me, still stuck in the circle’s mold.
It pains so much, the heated anxious sweats now feel like numbing cold burns.
Deep in the pits, my brain never fits.
My emotions threw fists.
My heart is on a blitz
All I ever wanted was your happiness.
I am hopeless.
Come caress…
my broken heart…please.
I just want your attention.
To see with my eyes, the love you say you have for me.
Dont let me down.
That’s something I can only do.
Dont let me down.
It’s something I’ve never intended to do…
Leaves blew whilst time flew.
Tick tock tick tock.
I could hear the birds flock.
Stumbling upon the leaves that flew right past me.
Reminded me of the seconds that had just passed.
And with every step taken forth.
The leaves trail in sync.
As the leaves fly by, the seconds of my life tick by.
I anticipated the future steps and pondered upon the past steps.
All in excitement, sometimes in frustration.
Like a repetitive song between before and after.
My breaths were only counted by steps behind and ahead.
Such moments wasted on time.
Tick tock tick tock.
My breaths wasted on a clock.
The flock of birds have already flown by.
I was too occupied to say hi.
Growing up, I always considered myself to be a rebel. It felt wrong to conform to the usual standards, so I mostly went with the opposing view, but that was wrong too – wrong for me.
Along my journey I met many souls and learnt important lessons but I think the most important one of all came from my closest soul relation. This lesson or teaching rather was that the person I should listen to or follow is myself. Now this was a huge mind shift because I realized I didn’t know many things that I didn’t learn from another source.
The process of experiencing things is one of the greatest I’ve felt. Questioning different aspects of life may be annoying to some but there isn’t anyone that should tell us how to feel, live or think. Let’s create the world we want to live in together!
The society we live in has many different kinds of people. Labels are often given so that people can be sorted and classified as being a certain way. Lots of people try to fit themselves into that classification, while others rebel, wanting to be unique. The one thing they both have in common though, is that they focus too much on how others view them and give very little thought to who they actually are.
Comparison has become a norm. We think about others, and how we wish we could look like them, talk like them or dress like them. We spend so much time trying to be like others or be better than them when we could aim to just be.
Many people talk about “being yourself”, yet what does being yourself mean? Aren’t we ourselves right now? There is nothing to achieve or become, it’s already a state of being we are in. We should however, really focus more on ourselves!
We need to think about who we are right now and what are the things that will make us happy, then we should start doing those things or working towards it.
Too many people spend their lives caged in their mind, thinking about other people and sending negativity out to them because they seem to have it together while we don’t. We really need to create a society where we can be happy for others and want to pull them up, and once we start putting that out there, people will also pull us up when we need it.
Let’s create heaven on earth by focusing on what makes us happy and then transfering that energy to the world, then the universe!
My heart races faster than I can run, I’m left alone afraid and confined to a cage.
Is this the next big plague.
Last time I checked, I was not in your food chain nor was i a trophy for you to claim.
You claim my horns as your trophy, you couldn’t be good enough to win a real one.
Sat on a couch made from my fur, adorned with my fellow mates corpses, you look into a mirror which reflects no conscience.
You stole a prides king, stripped a mother’s cloak off, clipped an Angel’s wings and sawed off a families horns.
All for your sinning eyes.
Call them ornamental, the latest craze at fashion week, you pay an arm and a leg to wear the dead.
The rain will wash away my blood from your hands but never this sin.
Don’t try to win ownership of me, that fine print on paper; paper you made from my home, won’t be fine enough as the dust your fire will turn into.
I ended up at carnival with you trying to tame me, look at you being an untamed animal.
You caged me up and fed me dust, just to entertain spoilt kids, what about my kids you tore me away from.
My fellow ring mates dress up like clowns, it’s funny how you don’t need to dress to be one.
Whilst you chain me down for my next act, you better put your act together.
Our sounds vary from high to low, such fine tuning. Your screeching and hysterical screaming in my ears sounds like music played at a scavengers dinner party.
I’m no sacrificial bargain, sacrifice the ego that you fed yourself to grow.
What’s bravery to you is just cowardness on my turf, just wait and watch when mother nature makes the tables turn.
Hear my roar, feel my growls spiking up your spine, watch my wings soar across your fire, my stomps, my grips…what’s just an animal to you, is a warrior for this earth, our queen!
You may kill and burn my home but you won’t burn my fire..my fire compared to your ash.
Watch how the game can turn in a flash.
I know what desolation feels like and I don’t wish you the same plight.
As evil as you’ve been to me, what’s just an animal to you is more forgiving as you could ever be.
But hear me now when I say…
As you keep walking, walking on this burning ground, the hunter will become the hunted…
Dedicated to the hunted, abused, captive animals. If they could express themselves, this would be how.
Click the link below to find an organization suited for/close to you that fights against these injustices: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_animal_rights_groups
Empaths are people that have the gift (or curse) of being able to feel the emotional states of other people. It is often described as picking up on the energies of another person, to the point where you feel the emotion as if it were your own.
It is a rare ability to be born an empath and shouldn’t be confused with the ability of being empathetic. Almost all humans are able to feel some percentage of empathy, which is the ability to understand or share someone else’s feelings, however being an empath goes deeper than this.
Empaths are highly intuitive, very observant, really good listeners and excellent problem solvers. Now, while it might seem that these are qualities everyone would like to have, there are also major difficulties that Empaths face. Their ability to pick up on other people’s emotional states means it is extremely draining for them to be in crowded places, such as malls or to watch the news and listen to the sad state of affairs in the world.
If you think you may be an Empath, some of the signs you should look out for include:
You know when someone is lying to you.
Feeling the emotions of others as if they were your own.
Being a good listener and being able to understand the other person’s point of view.
People constantly want to talk to you about their problems.
Always wanting to help others, sometimes at the expense of yourself.
You are willing to do anything for the people you care about.
You often feel misunderstood even though you are able to understand others really well.
You feel drained or overwhelmed when you are surrounded by too many people.
You have good intuition.
In my opinion being an Empath is a slightly evolved state, it doesn’t mean you are better than anyone but rather you are better equipped to help others. Empaths are an important part of this world and I salute anyone gifted with that ability.
I just wonder if when you created this game, had you ever thought of its players?
Was it just about adding as many complicated layers.
Your selfishly coded layers, defining the roles of all players.
Keeps you entertained doesnโt it? Created dynamic only for your eyes.
You donโt care about the glitch in their eyes!
What were you thinking?
Did you think I would leave no queries because I am sinking?
My vulnerability of never feeling loved,
would leave me your devoted puppet leaving nothing about myself discovered.
You leave me no answer, just me and myself alone to debate
on the clouds of dreams you left me to create.
I donโt know who I am anymore.
Just a little pawn on a chessboard, not played with anymore.
Thrown into the abyss in a black and white frame.
Leaving no power onto me to mastermind my own game.
Constructing my own ruin by following this mainstream behaviour,
Once again I plead for a saviourโฆ.
Wake up! You need saving from yourself
To break off from a society that stacked you up like a defect on its shelf.
I wish a tale onto you, one you have coded for yourself
A tale with many shades of colours to tell.
Filled with your own wins and fails.
The only query you have to mail
Is one to your heart, to set you on a journey to your peace and self-discovery.
To live a life on the basis of your own commentary.
An everlasting moment.
I embrace it all to my hearts content.
I’d never miss or forget the past.
I’d never fear the future or what’s to last.
Changing love like seasons.
Still standing; an unchanged persona, that’s me!
Life’s free, probably not real.
Celebrate tomorrow as if it’s an eternal opportunity.
An opportunity to live like something that doesn’t last forever.
Short moments of bliss.
As soft as this seasons kiss.
I breathe out today, awaiting a new tomorrow.
As twisted as life may be.
Love let’s it be.
You cant make brush strokes when the paint is dry.
You cant dream a tomorrow when today is tomorrow.
You cant begin if you don’t try.
I cant try without telling you goodbye.
All of the risks we take from now onwards.
All of the steps we walk from today on.
We’ll paint a world with more love….
I cant try without telling you goodbye.
You lit up my life, but this continuous plight isn’t right.
We could only paint their worlds, not our own.
Tomorrow’s me is today’s me, just watered.
I’ve always had the seeds to grow.
You watered me daily just like a pro.
How did you know me, know me so well.
Here are some of my roots and stems.
As strong as you appear, your loneliness says you need them.
We’re both lost and found, but be proud.
Life is good in unaware bliss.
A bliss to find the answers to questions we cry… WHO AM I? WHO ARE YOU? WHAT ARE WE?

Most of us live with the thought that it’s okay to suffer now, because it will all be worth it later on. We work really hard and sacrifice our time and energy because we believe that’s how it needs to be done. Days turn to weeks and months and before you know it life takes on this routine where you work for ten months, just to have a two month holiday, during which you’re so tired that you end up just sitting around not doing anything you really wanted to anyway. It’s true we need money to survive, and having more money gives you more luxuries and that’s all well and good but what are you doing for yourself right now to make you happy? You have the money yet you keep postponing buying that car you always dreamed of having. What happened to that kid who loved to travel and wished they had the funds to back them up? Well you have it now yet you make excuses about not having enough leave left.
It’s baffling how we consider ourselves adults and yet for most of us, we’re controlled by people in every direction. We always feel obligated, we always put ourselves down. We wait for the day when we’ll be happy but why should we? There’s little things we can do right now to take back our control. Actions we can be proud of. Situations that can make us happy. What more do we really need than a change of mindset? If it’s not easy to make big changes such as booking that overseas holiday then why not start small? Take two minutes a day and do something that’s just for you. We feel it’s selfish to think about ourselves because of the conditioning we received. We feel the need to be there for our parents, friends, partners and kids all the time but we really don’t need to be. As much as it’s amazing to be a part of this collective energy of love, we are still individuals and we need to make sure we’re of optimal physical and emotional health before we can aid others.
Remember you know what you want and need to be happy, things that don’t come at the cost of yourself or others. It’s important to go after our desires but we should never feel we have the right to do this in a way that makes someone else unhappy or confined. So find ways to smile everyday, a genuine smile that comes from a place a fulfilment in your soul. Do this for you and by doing so you’re ultimately contributing to a healthier, happier world around you and for this I thank you!
You’re there constantly
Other emotions come and flow
But it always leads back to you
I can’t understand why
You make me push everyone away
Wanting to revel in your glorious despair
Yet I also hate you
Wishing I could be like them
Content and positive
But sometimes shadows are comforting
So what do I do
When my mind is fighting to stay afloat
Can I fight destiny
Should I even want to
Then sleep comes
A soft calm vagueness
As humans we have such amazing potential to be anything and everything we want, but how sad, we choose violence , jealousy, abuse, just to name a few, over positive emotions like love, happiness and sharing. Do we not see that everyone has a journey and when you walk into that persons life, you should find out how they got to be that amazing that made you jealous.
I understand that some of us in this world are thinkers, meaning we look for ways to make the world better, those are the hardworking beings that go on everyday despite their circumstances. Then we get the entitled ones, the ones who feel because my ancestors went through a certain journey I am entitled to things that do not belong to me, so I will take it irrespective of who I hurt. Then there are the ones that will be selfish and push forward, donโt get me wrong, I admire ambitious people, but donโt tramp on people along your way up to the top. I admit the world would be pretty boring if we did not have so many different kinds of people, but my beef is with the suffering that one human chooses to inflict on another, just because they can and want to.
Why canโt we hold each otherโs hands and work toward a common goal of peace and serenity? A world where we would look back and say, wow I left something amazing for the next generation.
I plead to all leaders to change their speeches and instead of preaching about hate , choose compassion. I plead to all families, instead of pushing a good person down, hold your hand and help them up, show them love, you will be surprised how much better and stronger a family becomes when they support and love each other. I plead to all friends to be proud of having friends in your life who sticks around when you are having your bad days, those are the days you need someone the most.
My dream is to see a world where love is shared amongst everyone. A world where we support each other. A world where we not driven by greed, money and jealousy but rather the upliftment of human kind, we all want to be happy and want whatโs best for us and our families, so make that change and letโs work together instead of tearing each other apart.
Yours truly
An optimistic human being
My hands form fists
It gets harder to breathe
Everything is blurry
Tears burn my eyes
My voice cracks
You’ll never know what you did to me
Do you even want to?
Speaking ourselves can be really painful for most of us. Sometimes even admitting certain things to ourselves is difficult. We keep our mouths shut while letting the thoughts play in our mind over and over again till we get sick. We do it because we’re afraid of reactions, we do it because we’ve been hurt before and have major trust issues and eventually we do it just because we’re tired.
We can’t live like this though! I mean can it even be called living? Just existing like this, damages our soul. We all have our special and completely unique journey. There’s no need to be a certain way, there’s no need to be anything you don’t want to be. Dream if you want, anything can be a dream, even wanting to eat your favourite flavour ice-cream the next time you’re out.
When we start acknowledging our desires and needs and we know that they will always be different from that of others, then we can start loving ourselves and when we do that we can start speaking ourselves. We need to speak out from a place of compassion and understanding, not anger. In life not everyone will understand us or why we choose to do a certain thing or be a certain way, but that’s okay as long as we understand ourselves and are proud. And when we do that for ourselves we extend that energy out to others, it’s okay how they see us, but we will see them as people on their unique journey and with time maybe we can help create a world of love.
This article was inspired by the angels in my life and 7 other angels called BTS.
Rain drops trickled down her wounds.
Drops of mercy from mother earth, she’s used to being exploited.
She stared sadly at the fingers pointedโฆ
Fingers pointed back at her, for the pain she endured.
She prayed to hope, asking to be cured.
She faced sleepless nights.
Struggled with countless internal fights.
Whispering to herself everyday.
Take this pain awayโฆ
His face, his grip, his demonic gaze.
Conjured up FEAR to run at her highest pace.
I stand here safe.
But scared of an ill fate.
I refuse to live like this.
I refuse for all of those woman to live like this.
Scarred and dead, sent to the abyss.
With the greatest intention, I ask the universal laws of fate.
Allow ourselves to conjure up our own fate.
I only wish for a law that’s fair.
The only thing that should burn is her fiery hair.
Rise up my wonder woman.
May we CONQUER all men that seek to be our ruin.
Rape, gender based violence, abused woman; this world is burning and so are her soldiers. A woman’s empathy is not weakness but strength. Find it in your heart to feel another’s pain.I hope that whoever you are reading this, regardless of your gender identity take some initiative to empower woman. Peace and love to you.
-from, a woman.
Iโve wasted too many hours in a day, building dreams and planning success.
A flooded brain married to an anxious mess.
Iโve walked into life, believing it to be a summerโs breeze.
Reality ushered the uncomfortable dry surges that would never please.
I sat and thought of reality and illusion.
And stood up to confusion.
I fell in the middle of dreaming and living.
I remained, at crossroads; searching and climbing.
I never stood back to breath, feel, experience.
All in a single moment.
All in just a single moment!
I chose to stand and do nothing, think of nothing, feel nothing.
Within momentsโฆ
Thoughts became clear, filling up the missing components.
I began to live like this.
I live here, I am here, I am me.
This is what success wrote to me.
Happiness for me, given by me.
Take your time to live. Be yourself, live for yourself. If defined as happiness; an immeasurable feeling, success can’t be measured.
With broken wings and a scarred heart
I made my way, I made my start
It wasn’t easy to express all this light
But I had you
You guided my thoughts
Directed my shine
Infiltrated my love
Now I’m flying
Falling too
Mostly falling
But I keep getting up
Because I don’t want to be too far from you
I see your light
It gets brighter
I see my light
It gets brighter
You are my healing Angel
And maybe I’m yours too
We all have certain standards that we live by and that’s great, but sometimes when we don’t meet some of them, we end up punishing ourselves severely.
Anxiety to me is the racing thoughts in your head that renders you speechless, coupled with sweaty palms. You’re scared, nervous, embarrassed and wondering how am I able to feel all of this at once? The society we live in is such that many of us will experience this feeling more than once, so it’s important to find methods to get yourself out of it.
I believe anxiety comes from judging ourselves and comparing ourselves to others, therefore to become less anxious we need to deal with these root causes. Understanding ourselves and why we do things or think a specific way is actually quite a difficult task. It brings forward many emotions that we normally try to suppress. We need to see ourselves for the complex beings we are and move forward in baby steps so that we don’t end up hurting ourselves even more.
When it comes to judgement, we need to ask ourselves these questions:
Is what I’m doing going to hurt myself or others?
Is it illegal ?
If your answer is no, then why are you afraid of doing it? Is it because of what others will think of you? I know it’s tough to be laughed at or made fun of.. but all that really means is you are unique. Actually everyone is unique but many decide to hide behind the thoughts of the masses and you have broken free. They may not see it that way but are you really going to cause yourself pain and emotional hurt because they choose to think a certain way?… We need to be proud of being able to choose our own direction. I know this is a clichรจ but It really doesn’t matter what others think of you. It only ever matters if you let it. So don’t let it!
We also go through life constantly comparing ourselves with everyone we know, with people our age, people of our skin colour and just people in any wake of life. We try to talk like them, act like them, and have what they have and then we wonder why we aren’t happy. How can we be happy though? We aren’t anyone else. We’re us. We like what we like, we want what we want. Now I know it’s easy to say all this but when it comes down to putting it into practice we still find ourselves going out of our way so that we appeal to the masses. Well that part is down to you.
Advice is everywhere these days, but what matters is what we do with it. When you’re ready just take a breath, take some alone time and let go. Let go of all the people that made you feel you weren’t good enough and after you let them go tell yourself you want to heal. Tell yourself you know it’s not going to be easy but you know the rewards will be great for you. Then put into practice the small actions and decisions that will ultimately make you, you! Do whatever you want and back it up by standing up for yourself. Your confidence will be your biggest strength. This is possible for all of us, we just need to choose it and stick with it.
I will admit it’s been one of my biggest challenges too, but hey that’s what we’re here to do, learn and grow. Purple Empaths hope to inspire and is always ready to lend a helping hand.
Much ๐
~purple
Whenever we meet someone, we decide the role they will have in our lives and how much of our time and emotion they deserve. Our relationships with our family is much different, it’s a predetermined connection and we often have to live out these relationships according to societal standards.ย
Most people have good relationships with their families, hence the phrase,ย blood is thicker than water.ย Sometimes however, life hands us a family that doesn’t seem to understand us at all. We cry, fight, and in extreme cases are abused, end up in depression or both. So this begs the question, Is it okay to cut ties from your family?ย
The answer is and always will beย YES!! It’s not an easy decision to make or put action into but sometimes it is a necessary step for us. There are two rules we should live by
We are not responsible for the emotional well-being of others.
We do not have to be in a relationship where the give and take isn’t mutual.
These rules apply to everyone in your life. It isn’t about being selfish, it’s about taking care of you so you can be your best self to others who appreciate your value. It’s true that society may point fingers and judge you but at the end of the day you know your truth!
So how do you break ties?
The best and most effective way is to no longer have them in your life. It isn’t always possible to completely not have them in your life. So it’s important to break away from them emotionally. This is a state where you are no longer affected by their words, behaviour or feelings toward you .
This isn’t an easy process to go through alone and if you require any support, please do contact our support room.
Much love
~purple
As my title would have given away what the article is about, I would like to bring your attention to the reason as to why its pertinent that some action is taken. I would like to start off by explaining the significance of the rainforest.
Where is the Amazon based?
There are nine nations that share the Amazon, namely; Brazil, Peru, Venezula, Colombia, Ecuador, Bolivia, Guyana, Suiname and French Guiana. The Amazon covers about 35% of the South American continent.
Whatโs the fuss about Amazon?
The Amazon is referred to as the earths lungs, produces 20% of the oxygen in the earths atmosphere. As human, we will die without oxygen, so understanding why the Amazon is so pertinent to our existence, should be common knowledge and something that should get a lot of airtime. Beside the many species of animals, spiders, reptiles as well as sharks and eels that take shelter in this vast forest they call home, there is also communities and villages which reside close by.
Whatโs happening to the Amazon?
Due to the dry season in Brazil, wildfires often occur, but this year the fire was worst then normal, because farmers effort to deforest the land for cattle ranching. Nasa keeps track of all activity and thus far has detected 72, 000 fires between January and August and more then 9,500 forest fires since Thursday ( 15th August 2019), in the Amazon region.
Why is this bad?
Despite the fact that this fire is causing black outs to major cities, its causing people to flea their homes, due to the smoke coverage. The rain water has turned black. Because of the particulate matter in the atmosphere, it has changes the colour of the rain water. Because if the active fire, carbon monoxide is spreading, and exposure to carbon monoxide can harm to the respiratory system which can lead to asthma. Along with lung issues, there can also be stinging eyes, fast heartbeat, runny nose and a sore throat.
What can we do to help?
Firstly, we can educate ourselves and others.
Secondly, we can reduce, reuse and recycle. Paper comes from trees chopped down in the Amazon, less demand, in theory, means less deforestation. Lastly, Donate to a charity, there are six specific charities that have received four stars from the Charity Navigator , namely:
Amazon Conservation Association
Amazon Watch
Rainforest trust, but to name a few.
Usually in situations with such catastrophic outcomes and danger, many people turn a blind eye. But in this case, itโs not just South America thatโs getting affected, itโs the entire world and all the wildlife who is going to end up with no home, not to mention the thousands of people that can die. Let our actions of today, make a difference to a better tomorrow.
We often hear the phrase, “We are all individuals” and I for one definitely believe it. We go through life constantly surrounded by others, however each of us take from it different life lessons. That’s where our individuality or uniqueness comes from. We all recognise this at a soul level but we fail to practice it on the human plane.
This failure to recognise our true self and potential often stems from the conditioning we receive as children. Many people in our society suffer from insecurities and unfortunately when they become parents they end up taking it out on their kids. It doesn’t mean that they are bad people, because sometimes they may not even be aware of it, but it does have detrimental effects on the children.
Being scared of being judged is a difficult thing to go through but being scared of your kid being judged is even worse, for you and for them. You force them to suppress parts of themselves in order to fit into societies mould. Feelings of never truly being good enough will always haunt them because you’re indirectly telling them that by being their authentic self, they are embarrassing you.
Why is it that we please others at the expense of our own happiness and the happiness of our kids? Why do we place so much emphasis on what Mrs Next Door thinks ?
It’s time to stop for a moment! Whether you’re a parent or a kid, it’s time to reclaim your power and encourage the ones you love to do the same. People may talk about us, but in no way does that determine our worth. Our place in society is meaningless, we need to be searching for the meaning of our life.
It’s not easy to love yourself, but it starts getting easier once you put intention and action into it. Parents, please allow your kids to be their beautiful selves, no matter how that may come across.
To whoever is reading this, take a moment for you. Go easy on yourself, you really don’t need that pressure!
much ๐
purple

These are some warm times indeed, political inferno, socio-economic heat ups and soon a “burnt up” planet. The global warming phenomenon has been a very hot topic in the recent decades and with good reason. In most recent news burning forests have come to light but not with the greatest attention. Brazil’s Amazon forest has been inundated with dark smokey blazes. further to this,our weather has not been its finest this year with the recent abnormal heat waves.
The Amazon has been on fire , not something new though, wildfires are common during dry seasons and are in fact very important for the growth of forests. within limit, only within the limits the planets system creates are these fires beneficial, however if changes to natural phenomena occur those limits could be crossed. large rainforest loss as well as drastic weather changes have doubled the occurrence of wildfires for some good years now. Most of these changes in wildfire occurrence are due to anthropological interference, one of the Amazons biggest concerns is deforestation and in connection to recent fires, most of the fires created have been known to be one of the methods driving deforestation activities.
โOver the past three decades, wildfires in the region have increased in size and frequency, causing major socio-ecological disturbance. In future, development trajectories and climate change interactions are expected to amplify favourable conditions for increased wildfire risk in Amazoniaโ
Devisscher, T., Malhi, Y. and Boyd, E., 2019. Deliberation for wildfire risk management: Addressing conflicting views in the Chiquitania, Bolivia. The Geographical Journal, 185(1), pp.38-54.
The Amazon forest, one of our largest forest ecosystem boasting with the richest and most unique biodiversity is home to over millions of species, in addition it houses over 300 ethnic communities. those communities and species depend on the forests network for survival however its not just them who do…we all do. “Shes” what we call in metaphorical terms “our lungs” Can you live without your lungs? of course not, that is why we take care of them so why not our forests?
I won’t bore you with a science lesson on greenhouse gases or global warming, reason being that we should all have already been clued up about this. Are our education systems doing enough, news coverage on these issues barely touch the surface. Most of what we learn and read from media and education do not highlight these issues enough. Are we living sustainably? how can we if we do not learn how to.
One of the challenges is how the relationship with man and the environment has developed over the years particularly the dependency of man on the environment. With our evolving industries and economy more resources are required to fuel the longevity of these two evolving sectors. Although in hand with this, the more damage imposed onto the environment the more the environment physically changes in response to the damage, responses such as flooding, drought and wildfires. These reactions can inversely affect the people and unfortunately the poor communities since they do not have the economic status to back them up.
We live with the environment, within the environment and hence our interactions with the environment needs to be managed appropriately so that we donโt hinder the sustainability of the environment for us and the future.
We are taught from kids by many superheros that “with great power comes great responsibility” We understand consequences, we have the empathetic ability to feel responsibility and guilt. We are all made up well with the ability to destroy our home and ignore responsibility but we are made up perfectly to face reality and fix our attitude towards our responsibility as residents on this planet.
I am not attacking a government, scolding a community or blaming a sector. I simply hope to highlight reality with hope that YOU, the person reading this re-think their responsibility as a human being living on the only habitable, generous planet.
A way to heal yourself is to heal your home, our planet.
I’ve fought with myself about society
I even said I’ll join the streets of society
Enclosed in a shell, like a prisoner in a cell.
I’ll live that life waiting for the next hell.
Maybe I’ll be better, maybe the world will be better
But as the feathers dropped, feather by feather….
*sigh* I’m such a fool.………..
From a life we called prison there lay my dear “cell mates”
How could I forget them, all we ever wanted was to run in haste.
We all hated how society painted life
Hiding the dark with its fake light
But listen my “cell mates”
They are us, we’re all reflecting mirrors
Hiding from our blessed terrors.
Let’s redefine this word
Looks like the dictionary doesn’t define through the spectrum of our world’s.
Let’s be society together
No rules or boundaries together
We don’t have to surf the same wavelength, that’s not what soul family meant.
At least we won’t throttle each other with a rule leash or have false words to preach.
We can eat the sunlight and drink moonlight.
We can be those silver dots in that space sea.
Let’s swim freely in this little space sea.
Come join me in our space sea.
My mind races, so many faces, too many phases.
Am I a steam train?
Ouch! It feels like that steam rush is ripping my brains apart.
DAMN! this next stop feels like lifetimes apart.
Too bad I can’t be like one of those bullet trains
Maybe then I’ll track past fast from all of this life’s pains.
People like fast, they say hurry up
“Life’s too short, so pull your socks up”.
I don’t like that spin, it’s too primitive for me.
But NO! Down here I’m just a waste youth spilling unnecessary tea. It’s just an excuse they say.
A pile of lazy they say.
But when I almost stick a knife through my veins, “take it easy on life” they say.
Contradictory rules, foolish statements just to look cool.
Guess we all fools down here,so let me be my own fool.
There’s isn’t a tool worth fixing me nor a once size fits all fool suit sewed to fit me.
So let me roam naked on the streets of life
At least I’m a real fool without that fake look you would rather see me strut on a dim high.
Why do I expect, I'm never correct.
I'm just gonna flow I want to let go.
I'm so written by the book , that's the only way people look.
So I expect out of respect.
for something I don't really want all because I never got.
I don't want to just sit and rot with something I don't got.

Have you ever felt that you would never be happy again?! You’re breathing and your heart is beating yet you feel as if you’re not even a part of this moment or this world.
If you’re still reading and you answered yes to the above question then congratulations! You my fellow being have reached one of the best phases of your life.
It’s definitely not going to feel that way right now but isn’t that always how it is when we are hurt, be it physical or emotional. It’s only later on that we realise we developed scars and that scar tissue is stronger than the parts that are unbroken. Those hurts are eventually considered lessons and we become supporters for others that are dealing with it. Well this is no different.
The feeling of not wanting to go on is not a sign that you should end your journey on earth but rather a prompting for you to accept your emotions. To really feel that low moment. Understand why it’s there.. Who caused it? What caused it? And Why it was necessary for you to endure that specific pain. We often feel life is unfair and we compare our struggles with that of others but the universe would never give you something that you didn’t need. This in no way excuses people that have hurt you but it’s important for you to really understand your journey and to understand why certain things occurred the way they did.
The reason we end up feeling so low is because we allow the words and actions of others to defeat us. We live by the rules they create and we start basing our worth on the guidelines they draft. This isn’t our fault because it’s the way we’ve grown up to be. We were conditioned to think that way even before we learnt to read and it’s sad that sometimes the people who do that to us don’t even realise it because it’s become a norm.
There is going to be instances in life where others take control of our body or mind and at that moment we are unable to stop them. But it doesn’t mean we have to continue to live that way. Being sad and feeling low is natural and we have to go through that feeling for as long as it takes our scar tissue to heal, but I want you to always remember you will not feel this way forever. You are an important part of this universe and right now you need to say to yourself I’m thankful for the experience of this low feeling and when I’m ready I will choose to explore my other emotions because I am in control of my life and my feelings, and I am the only one who can make that decision.
And when you are ready to feel something other than low then purple empaths is here to help you find your smile again. You are not alone anymore.
Hope you find your purple soon!